I'm a senior in highschool and I dated this guy for over 6 months. we were a perfect match in almost every way.

I don't want to make this too long, but basically everything thing was great until we went on a 2 week long trip to Scotland with my dad where we got to hike 100 miles. even when we were there everything was still fine. but when we got back i don't know what happened. he claimed he loved me but became increasingly more distant and uncommunicative. I tried so many times to communicate the problem but he never changed anything. I started getting upset and sad all the time so I knew it was time to break up.

while I was breaking up with him, he didn't even get upset or try and fight for me, and told me he only loved me as a friend and wanted to be friends... but then he made me promise to go on a date with him in 2 years... like what... it's been 4 months now and I can't get over him. I loved him so much and we got along so well until he got all distant. I still care about him so much and don't want to loose him in my life but it is so hard to see him because I still love him. he is happier than ever since we broke up and says that he wants to be friends, and I feel like he didn't mean what he said about the date.

Basically I need advice on whether I should tell him I'm not over him and ask if at some point in the future he'd consider getting back together (because we still are a great match), if I should just slip out of his life and try and get over him, or if I should continue to pursue friendship so I can keep him in my life even though its hard for me and messes with my emotions.