so im seeing someone, and have been for the last few weeks - nothing serious, we dont even have a title. tomorrow he is going up north to washington for 3 weeks. socal was being burned alive last week and i didnt see him for almost a week and THAT seemed like forever. how do i deal with being away from him for just under a month? (i know it doesnt seem like a big deal but i have really bad dependency and abandonment issues due to past relationships)