Should I break it off?

Question

Well we've been engaged for a few months and dated for almost two years. Today he decides to act completely rude and disrespectful in front of my parents. Then he apologizes to my mother and blames everything on me. I want to end it because this isn't the first time he threw me under the bus or disrespected me. 
He has no respect for me...he's even called me a cunt and a bitch. I can't deal anymore....should I breakup with him?

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If you have worries about him respecting you- then I'd leave honestly. You can't force someone to respect you- definitely is one of the foundations a marriage is built upon. Respect, honesty, trust, and love. Second thought as deep as this usually mean it's not right. Time always helps build perspective- step away from the relationship and figure things out . Society often forgets what being engaged is for... "It's a practice marriage" in lots of ways. Good luck girl, you sound really strong- no doubt you'll pull through :)

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I've been treated like this in the past and when your in it it's hard to get out of it as they blame their behaviour on you and it's your fault! I am now in a loving relationship and he respects me and the same bank, he's never once swore at me. And I definitely wouldn't have anyone call me the c word especially someone who was meant to love me! I wish you well sweety x

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I've been there, I was engaged before I met my husband and he turned into the biggest jerk as soon as we got engaged I was constantly depressed and then finally broke up with him. Best decision ever!

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Btdt. Get out.

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I'm sorry that he's making you feel disrespected. Even couples with a great relationship based upon mutual respect get lazy throughout marriage. If you're having problems now, you need to reconsider... It'll only get worse at times. He shouldn't feel like he can be lazy just because he feels like he "has you" now. There are men out there who see true value in women.

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Im sorry your going through this ?

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Only you know your situation. Do you feel like it cant be fixed?

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The second a man talks to me like that he's getting cut the fuck off

Should I break it off?

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