Is it fair??

Question

Just looking for opinions but you don't have to be mean or negative about it please. I'm just curious. It's hypothetical.

Is it fair to purposely get pregnant (have children) if you're broke? You have enough money to barely get by and that's about it.

What do you think? What if a person will never have enough money? Do you think that means they should never have a baby? Even if it's the only thing they ever want out of life?

Answer

It is horribly unfair to have children for which you cannot provide.

It's unfair to you. It's unfair to them. And it's unfair to your friends/family that have to pick up the slack.

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You know whats unfair..waiting until your responsible and having a hard time getting preg. Then when you do get preg you lose it at 6 months and have 4500.00 to pay everyone their part of the medical bills..i say have kids before you reach 36 and responsible

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Yes. It is unfair. 
A child isn't a puppy. It's a human being. It has needs and wants, and it needs a parent who can provide for it. And not just financially. If you have to constantly work 2-3 jobs to barely take care of the kid, and it's raised by daycare and babysitters, that's not fair. Because that kid deserved to have parents who can actually raise it.
It's not fair to the tax payers who have to pay for you to get on government benefits. 
It's definitely not fair to the Moms out there who didn't purposefully get pregnant but need that help that you're receiving. 
It's not fair to you, always stressing about trying to be the parent your kid deserves.
So don't do it. You want a kid? Find a way to put yourself through school. Get a higher paying job. Pay off your debts. Get into a relationship with someone who truly loves you and can help you support and raise the kid. THEN try for a baby.

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Yes.

Sorry if you can't afford a baby don't have one

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My opinion my husband and I weren't expecting our first child and we we're hardly staying afloat but once we found out we we're pregnant everything changed and we we're able to do everything we needed to when u become a parent your whole world changes and hopefully people think about it before u do get pregnant and think weather they can afford to take care of a child or not

Is it fair??

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