Hey girls. I'm new here and would like to share I am 36yrs and trying to conceive for over 4 yrs now. I been referred to infertility doctors but I don't end up going. I want to let nature and God choose if I shall be preggo or not. I am blessed with a 15 yr old. And my husband doesn't want to know if its him or myself with a problem. I feel in my heart we are pretty healthy and just havent been trying hard enough to baby dance as often as we should, thats probably why we havent conceived. But will be going soon for a physical check up. Is there a certain type of test or blood work you guys recommend to me first in doing? Also can someone help me explain when I should try baby dancing if I have a 28 to 29 day cycle day 14 I ovulate, should I be trying day 10-18? Thank you in advance and much baby dust to you all.