So, I've been with my husband 4 years (married for 5months) . I believe every relationship goes thru things and have issues .... however , I'm to the point that I think we need marriage counseling . HE WON'T GO!!! I've tried to talk him into it several times but it's NO. I'm totally aware that I can go alone and solve my own personal insecurities but what about US and solving some of our issues together .? What should I do ? How could I convince him to go ?