I’m not the only one! Can someone please help!

For a long time I’ve struggled with the fact that I can’t have an orgasm. And sex has always just been meh to me. I love the idea of sex, and believe me I get horny. But for some reason when we actually get it on, I’m always left sort of... disappointed. He definitely knows what he’s doing. He’s had no problem making his ex’s orgasm. But when he tries to touch my clit it’s almost like it tickles, but times 100! I always thought i was the only one. I thought their was something wrong with me, like I wasn’t hooked up right. But then I found this and I felt better because I knew I wasn’t the only one. Does anyone have this issue and found a way to still have an orgasm. Please help! I’ve NEVER had one and I’m desperate.