Is he being reasonable?

Question

Please don’t be judgemental want your honest advise . 
My son who is 18 started smokes cannabis now and then  . My husband started saying to me that my son shouldn’t come and see his half sister cos he smokes  . My daughter is 18 months old and loves her Bro and he adores her too . 
I was shocked and angry but didn’t say anything to my husband but he knew how I felt . Any advise be appropriated

Accepted Answer

He's a pot head not a murderer

Answer

As long as he doesn’t smell like smoke, isn’t smoking near or around her and is in a clear state of mind when with her, I wouldn’t see a problem. He’s 18 and what he does safely and behind closed doors (depending on if he lives alone?) shouldn’t dictate if he can see his family

Answer

Thanks Mia for your comments. 
No he doesn’t smoke around her cos he lives with my ex husband and doesn’t smell of smoke either . He always clear state of mind when he visits us . I love my children and love my husband too but it doesn’t mean he can dictate and tell me that my son shouldn’t see his little sister .

Answer

It's reasonable to ask him not to smoke prior to spending time with her.

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I can understand your husband's concern however, maybe he can do some 2017 Marijuana research to ease his mind. It's not as bad as some people make it. It's legal in some cities in the U.S. It can also be consumed instead of smoked. It makes you sleepy, hungry, thoughtful, and goofy. As long as he doesn't smell like it, or smoke it at your house when he's visiting your hubby should be nice and happy your son loves his baby sis and makes time for her. Especially since there's such an age gap and he doesn't even live there. Good luck, and to answer your question... Yes. I feel he's being unreasonable 😉

Answer

It’s pot not heroine. As long as he doesn’t smell of it or smoke right before- I don’t see the big deal.

Is he being reasonable?

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