Please ladies if you never experienced a loss pregancy be aware of what you say. Just because everything happens for a reason doesn't mean we will find reason for our angel to be taken from us. And it doesn't matter if we were pregnant 1 week or 9 months the lost still hurts and will effect mothers differently but bottom line it hurts. Before you make a comment ask yourself how you felt when you first heard that heart beat, felt the first kick, held and smelled that baby for the first time. Remember, we never had that opportunity. Our angels were taken from us and support and reassurance that it was not our fault is what we need. Just love and support. If you don't know what to say just express your sympathy and leave it there. And this goes for all fellow mothers who lost pregnancy and even had still borns.

May all of our sweet babies rest easy and one day will meet them again.