Getting annoyed now!

Been trying for months! Thought this would be our month, then BAM, af decides to come 3 WEEKS EARLY! 😩😩 and so painful! Had an operation to check if I had endometriosis, “nothing seen” 🙄 and my other half has a cyst on his balls😅 doctors refuse to do any tests on me until we’ve been trying for over a year, and my other half doesn’t seem to be bothered anymore, what am I to do 😩