I keep seeing posts where people are  more sexually active but I'm the opposite. The other night was our anniversary and mentally i really wanted to make love to my SO but It seemed so dry down there. I struggled to get it in and once I did it hurt and so I gave up :(. My SO has been really kind and understanding about it but i just feel so embarrassed and frustrated, I want to cry whenever I think about how things used to be and how it is now. I'm only 23 and I used to ready whenever and now it's like once in a blue moon. Does anyone else feel this way? Is there anything I can do to fix it? Please help it's making me really sad.