Am I️ his first or second child’s mother??

Question

I’m pregnant with my fiancé’s son. I’m due next week & He considers me his first childs mother . However before me his ex was pregnant with their lil girl and she miscarried . So I️ say I’m his second....what do y’all think....

Accepted Answer

Why the fuck does it matter

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Both. Some people don’t consider babies that weren’t born alive as children, some people consider them rainbow babies and count them. Neither of you are wrong.

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Second.
They even knew her sex was female & Id imagine the mother (maybe him too) grieved & named the baby.
It isn’t a competition though; I find the question odd.

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I think I would do whatever he wants in this situation. It was his baby that miscarried, so if he wants to say first child let him.

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I've been wondering the same thing because my boyfriend got his ex pregnant and she miscarried, I'm pregnant now and am wondering if I would be considered his first or second baby mama , I think we would be the first once the baby is born cause they don't have his baby, if that makes sense 😂

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I was wondering the same but in mine its kinda different because his ex aborted the baby😞

Am I️ his first or second child’s mother??

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