Me and my boyfriend have been dating a couple months and everything was great. We adored each other and fell fast. He had gotten a job offer out of state (we were both in in another state) and he had to take it. We knew the distance would be hard but we knew it wouldn’t be for long because he was gonna find a way to come back down here.

Now that he has moved up there his entire perspective has changed.

He sees himself staying up there and he has no intentions on settling down anytime soon. He wants to keep moving around for his job and he wants me to come with him. But I’m perfectly happy where I️ am, and I’m just like, what about what I️ want for myself and my career? Does that not matter anymore? What are your opinions on this situation?