i have my sons father who ive known since we were kids, had a one night stand and bam. that was 7 years ago and we have been rocky ever since havent been together in 5 years ive had restraining order on him for physical threats. then i have my fiance who swooped in and saved the day! been helping me since my son was 1 year old. great man and dad but hasnt worked a day in 5 years lazy as hell. my sons father and i have been on a friend basis im helping him in his recovery and to stay sober (drugs are a horrible thing) . he came to me tonight and asked if some day we could try again to be a family. he does have 2 other kids with another girl from after me. and he loves those babies. i just dont know what to do. i love my fiance but he doesnt do anything to help provide. my sons father i still am in love with him he makes me feel like a kid again and i love seeing him and our son together. but yet he doesnt provide either. help ???