Nervous about still being a virgin
I was dating this guy for 4 years, I’m 16 now. We started dating super young and he was my first boyfriend, so obviously I had dreams of marrying the “man of my dreams.” That didn’t work out, and honestly thank god it didn’t. While I’m really happy to be my own person for the rest of high school, I have this irrational fear that I’ll be a virgin for too long and when I find the guy that I’m fully comfortable to go all the way with— they won’t want to. My ex and I never had sex, but we did do stuff with our mouths, hands, etc. so I’m not completely “inexperienced,” but for my whole life I knew that I didn’t want to do anything until it was legal. (It has nothing to do with religion or something my parents told me I “must do,” it just makes me feel better.) I’m worried that guys will be freaked out by me. Idk what to think or what to do about it. I know it’s a dumb thing to worry about but, how would it even come up in conversation, like if I’m in college or something? It just really worries me

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