Too Early?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months. i guess you could say we are getting serious. is it too early for him to be in my pants? i want him to be but i don’t know if it is actually too soon. and the fact that we are both freshman. comment please!!

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Girl! Your 15, high school guys aren’t shit! 4 months is a VERY short time and no where near a serious relationship. It’s a lust filled puppy love at this point. If your questioning having sex DO NOT HAVE SEX. I’m telling you right now NEVER give yourself to someone if there isn’t 125% trust, commitment, understanding, devotion, and love. I waited till I was 20 before I had sex and it was with my now husband. And let me tell you guys in general treat you better and do more for you when you aren’t sleeping around from an early age. When ever I dated someone and they found out I was a virgin they’re whole mindset changed. They KNEW that if I had waited that long that I had no problem waiting longer for the right guy. It weeded out the losers and players from the guys who actually wanted something real and serious. At 15 your priorities in a relationship is getting to know each other better, learning from each other, teaching one another. The LAST thing that should be on the both of your minds is sex. Sure hormones are through the roof right now for you two but is it really gonna last? Most likely not. You do t want your first time becoming a regret later on in life.

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I’m not voting because it depends how old you are. I feel like only a younger person would ask a question like this and I feel like if you have to ask us if it’s too early then you’re not ready.

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im a sophomore and me and my boyfriend had our two months yesterday, and we had sex barely past our one month. so just as long as you want to and think you're ready, just go for it :))

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I’m a freshman, all guys want at this age is to be in your pants. Two of my friends had sex and ended up pregnant (one a freshman, the other a junior) if you do anything like that make sure it’s what you want. And if it’s not and you say no then he should back off and be okay with your choice, and if you just so happen to get pregnant and you decide to keep it, don’t get butt hurt when he leaves. At this age most boys don’t want responsibility.

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Don’t have sex as a freshman in high school. Please. 😂 coming from a freshman in college, don’t do it. Just wait

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I’m 18 and lost my V in August. I would definitely say wait because you are a bit young and does change the relationship and you may not be able to handle. Also condoms break and I experienced this a few days ago. It scared the hell out of me even though I’m on bc.

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