Should I try anal??

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My boyfriend of 3 years has been asking me lately to try anal and other “butt stuff” (he mentioned anal beads) and I am very vanilla in bed so I’m not too into it but I want to make him happy. We’re long distance and only get to see each other so often but I really don’t understand all the hype about butt action. Can someone please tell me what’s so great about it??

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If you do try anal do NOT let your boyfriend put his dick in your vagina afterwards, if you use a condom throw it away If you do not make sure he washes his dick afterwards. Just make sure you're not doing it because he wants to, do it because you want it also.

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My husband and I do it a lot. I would suggest lube and laying on your stomach. Relax, relax, relax. If you tense up it hurts worse. Best of luck!

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It's not for everyone that's for sure. But if you're really willing to try it you have to be 100% calm and and okay with it. For me it feels absolutelyy amazing. The "when the guy pulls out there's poop on the tip" that's a complete myth. If you do try anal use lots of lube on your butt hole and his dick. I find spit to be the best thing for me. Take it slowly the first time don't over do it. Let him know that you want it done at your own pace.

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I tried it. wasn't for me. if you honestly want to try it then that will be the only way you know you like it. But try it becuase you want to not becuase he's pressuring you becuase I can guarantee if that's why you do it you won't enjoy it

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I can give you a little insight from a guys perspective. us guys that do enjoy anal tend to really enjoy it. it's something that feels completely different from the normal head or sex. it's a weird feeling to explain but when it's good it feels really tight and almost like it's trying to pull you back in when you stroke out, and when it's bad it feels kinda like sticking your dick in a cave. I've found thick girls are the first and thin girls tend to be the latter. If you have a good guy you should really consider it. however he needs to know his boundaries and how to start. usually toys and fingering really helps to start so you can gradually open up, if you go straight to it it will NOT be comfortable for you. take it slow and make sure he doesn't get excited and start going fast too soon. I wouldn't recommend starting on your belly either it seems to me that missionary usually works well as long as you take it easy at first and warm up to anything hard. best of luck:)

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It's actually feels good after the first time , just make sure you have lots of lube though 😜😜😜 GoodLuck

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I honestly love it but that’s a personal opinion lol

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It's really not that great I've done it maybe twice and I feel like I'm gonna have a bowel movement. After that My husband would ask me every now and again and I'd say no. My husband had to get a prostate exam and he doesn't ask me for anal anymore.

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My husband and I have done it lots of times! My first time doing it wasn’t too great just cause it hurt and a different feeling. After that then it was like..”okay, I kinda like this!”🙈😛 but use LOTS of lube! And go slow!!!!!! I found for me to start slow and then once I get use to it for a couple mins then he can start picking up speed. Also Important thing! You might bleed a little bit for your first time, just like spots here and there! But it’s okay, so don’t freak out! However, If u honestly don’t wanna do it, than don’t! But who knows, you might like it. Anal really tests your trust with your partner, I know I had to say stop a few times and he did immediately! 😌 but anyways! 
Good luck, and Relax! 👍😊

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personally I'm not into that stuff and i make sure that I'm respected in my choice. if you really want to give it a go, take it slow and easy. do some research about it because a lot of things can and do go wrong/bad that people can't always handle. there's also a much greater risk of infection due to bacteria levels in stool and the fact that the anus is not a sexual organ. precautions must be taken. make sure that your boyfriend is sensitive and respectful and knows what he is doing. i told my ex that he had to do his research and he refused and wanted me to teach him. i refused bc he's the only one that wanted it and it is my body that has to deal with almost all the consequences. im by no means a selfish person, but wanting to please your partner has limits and you should never have to do anything that you're not comfortable with. at the end of the day, you should only do what you want to do. if it's not something that turns you on, it's going to be very difficult to be aroused during the actual act. if you do it,  don't go into it blind and hurt yourself and wonder why it's not going well.

Should I try anal??

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