i'm 18 and i had a pregnancy scare last month. i had unprotected sex with someone i was talking to and he didn't pull out when he came, i missed my period for that month but got it this month. i would've kept the child i know that because i don't have the heart to abort it with my past and adoption is something i wouldn't want to do. i just need to know if something like this happens again that no matter how critical people can be there are some people out there who understand that caring for a child and dedicating time, responsibility and love is what i was meant to do. but i want to know if i'm being selfish if i kept the child knowing that the father wouldn't be in their life.