We have a fight last night and I want him to understand where I’m coming from and vice versa. I was angry and I wanted him to comfort me, but instead we ended up arguing. I never saw him so angry like that and I’m shock and cried all that anger i had started to become mixed emotions. I know ladies we are trying to find comfort from our husband whenever we are frustrated, something happened at work or at home and what they do sometimes is they scold you, lecture you, gave you words and facts and tell you to be logical and reasonable. From that I got upset with him because I didn’t get the comfort I want. When he ask me to explain I tried my best to explain. I even tell him to listen at least to what I’m saying because of what I’m going through. Then the tables turn and it becomes my fault or I’ll realise that it is stupid and it is my fault in the end and I tell him that. Anyways, I love my husband so much and we both agreed we won’t understand each other, but at least we will compromise in any situation and if it’s needed to. I realise that both voice needs to put out as well but the Husband doesn‘t confront the wife don’t add up to their anger and frustration especially when she is angry and emotional, they’ll explode! You’ll end up arguing and the husband will get mad as well. Instead Husband listen, you might not understand the wife but try to listen, don’t try to speak just listen and gave wife a gigantic big hug I can guarantee it won’t end in another argument. I repeat Don’t add on the wife’s frustration!!!

Just want to share that! Peace out ladies!