How to deal with ttc??

I know this has been brought up before, but I'm having a very hard time dealing with women all round me  getting pregnant and not even trying. I have three women in my family pregnant and none of them even wanted it before it happen (their happy now) I have been ttc for 7months (I know that's not a long time but it feel like forever) and it's killing me inside every time AF shows her ugly face :( and it feels like every time I get myself together another family member announces she's having a baby..?. What do u ladies do to keep yourselves from going crazy?? Thanks for your time!!