so this xmas i realized after all that none of my kids deserved gifts due to lies..ungratefulness...behaviors... and etc... anyways my 4 year old who is by far really smart pretty advanced for her age will be 5 in 2 weeks... she stole something yesterday and hid it thwn decided while at school today she would wear it...i saw it and thought it was from school but she admitted to taking it and hiding it from us and taking it to school... soi decided not to give her xmas gifts.... i dnt feel like i should give her gifts just because it is xmas... its like if we as adults do shit we dont get rewarded just cuz its a holiday.... so my gift to her was a beauty and the beast necklace but she will not be recieving it... my husband says im wrong she should get gifts but then again he wants everyone to enjoy xmas because his mom is going to pass any time.... and well my bio mom stated im just like my step mother... soooo what should i do... stick to my guns or give in