Okay so I started dating a guy and he’s amazing. Possibly most of what I look for in a guy. We had sex the first time and it was great but he didn’t cum and I did multiple times. I didn’t really think much of it because we had had a long day prior and I was tired so I was the one that had asked to stop. But then since that time we had sex more times and even though I’m satisfied he has never cum and he can go for hours.

I get bored of twisting turning flipping hanging over and over again for over an hour so I always have to just end it and also I end up feeling sore so it’s not enjoyable. I haven’t really brought it up with him that it bothers me but I had started to think that I’m the problem. But then I never had these issues before. I looked online and read from different doctors that sometimes guy won’t cum because they masturbate too much so their penis is used to their grip and not mine. There were other explanations but they had to do with sicknesses and medications which don’t relate to him.

I don’t know how to bring this up or ask him about it and it’s making me feel like maybe I’m not pleasing him although he seems to always want me sometimes more than I want him (and my sex drive is HIGH!)

Has anyone else experienced this or have any advice.