horrible ob

I hate my ob literally , ok first he could give a shit less about my health I have an ulcer that my gi doc is trying hard to treat but my ob refuses to move up my c section date ( I'm 37 weeks due Jan 11th same day as c section) I understand that the golden "estimated" which we all know is complete b's, 40 week mark is apparently more important than me internally bleeding to death from an ulcer , to make matters worse I'm extremely taticartic from the pain from an auto accident that fractured my pelvis, and every time and I mean every visit I'm not allowed to be more than 10 min late but I wait for over an hour and a half sometimes 2 hours to be seen for my scheduled appointments and cannot bring my children under 13 years old with me? oh and this is a common problem not the only patient that goes through this wait time issue , I honestly don't know what to do i no longer trust this doctor on any level and I don't want him doing my c-section at all this is my 4th I've trusted 3 differant doctors before this one but even my husband is on the hate fence on this doc