He blames me

My husband seems to always blame me on his problems. Just this morning I tried waking him up so that be can go to work...he says give me a minute. Ladies do they ever take a " minute". With my husband no his minutes are an hour. He works for his dad, sometimes there is friction there. So I nagged him to get up. And wowee! Mr crab apple...starts yelling and screaming. Calls me names like lazy and b*itch. I say nothing. He gets going again hates how I demean him when I hound him to wake up. Gets my blood boiling until finally I tell him to eff off. His finale word is that be wants to win an argument once and that I should let him.

Why do I put up with this man child? Argggg!