Judge if you like, I suppose it will happen no matter what. I currently have a 7 month old and am 10 weeks pregnant which is something I went to great lengths to prevent because I am far from ready for another baby. I struggle with my little as it is but my husband is so happy and excited I feel like i can't share my fears and anxiety about this pregnancy with him. I'm just not ready for another one, I cry thinking about how hard it's going to be and going through the newborn phase again. I have days when i'm excited and i do feel love for this little bean but i feel lost about it all. I still want one on one time with my son. I'm not ready to have to split time with him. I'm just scared. I wanted more time before this happened. And i feel like i can't talk to anyone about it because they'll judge and ridicule me.