hell of a way to say goodnight

So my friends with benefits and I were in bed this morning and we were discussing the kinkiest things we've ever done. He then out of nowhere pulls out a leg spreader bar. So I was like "DAMN." He started talking about the last time he used it and how he used one of his horse's lead ropes to tie the chick's hands to the bar itself. So I'm pretty kinky myself, but I've never actually tried bondage yet. Just never had someone willing to try it on me. He asked if I'd be into it, and I told him I'd think about it. (also the messages before this about falling were because my grandma fell and we had to call an ambulance for her, but she's doing much better and is asleep in her bed rn). As for his name in my phone...it's a joke because I always say it like a superheroes name but he's a super cunt. It's basically an ongoing joke from when we were together a long time ago and then broke up and only recently started being fwb.