Possible endo

R • All in God's timing. Married 9/23/2017 to my wonderful husband ❤ Baby #1 due Dec 2020!!

Hey guys! I wanted to make a post to see if anyone has any advice. I've had suspected endo for a while. I have horrible periods. I've had to miss school and now work because of them. My doctor was treating me with BC. I got married in September. At first I had pain during sex about ever 5-10 times. Then more often, and more often, etc. I now have bad pain every time we have sex. And we are ttc, so I'm off birth control. It seemed to get even worse when I got off it. Does this sound like endo? I saw a doctor and she wants me to give it a couple months, then have a lap. Is there anything I can do now? It's stressful for both of us. And I'm nervous about spending the money for surgery when it might not be endo. I'm so discouraged!!