So I really like this guy, he does ballet at my old dance school where my dad helps out at. We are really close, (even though I don't go there to dance, only to help) but my dad, even before we got in this relationship of friends (but we kinda know each other like each other), my dad strongly expressed his thoughts on the guy. My dad thinks that he is a dick prettymuch,his words not mine. But then he goes on about my other friend, same age as me, let's call him, Bob, and Bob really likes me now, and my dad really likes the picture of him and me, mostly because he isn't two years older than me, but also because Bob has never had a girlfriend before, and he is apparently more "tame".

I know if I actually go out with the guy I like, it will crush my dad, and Bob. My dad would probs ban me from the ballet school and I would never see my guy again. But I also know if I go out with Bob, my dad would be happy, my crush would be ok because he would know exactly what's happening and we would keep our relationship on the DL, but I would feel terrible because I would feel like I'm stringing Bob along and I wouldn't see my crush very often, because I would always be with Bob.

Remember I really don't want to be with Bob, I mean he is a nice guy, just not a nice guy for me.also remember, before I met my guy (let's call him Josh to make things easy), I didn't think I deserved a boyfriend, I hated my body, and my face, so I didn't bother even looking at boys.

Also, I only help out once a year, at production time, teaching the younger dancers and helping out back stage, this process takes about a week for all the performances, and most of the time I'm under the stage with Josh and Bob, mostly Josh tho, helping to put on all the boys' makup. it will be (usually another year before I see both of them in person, apart from briefly around the studios. So if I don't decide right now, I'll have to wait a full year, and by then, something else might seem better, and I'll take that, and I dont want that. So if I could please have you opinion on what I should do, any points of consideration would be greatly appreciated, thanks!!!!