Husband’s priority is work, not baby making

One of the reasons I married my husband is I thought he would make a great dad...and now we have been married for almost 3 years. I’m 35 and I’ve expressed to him that I can’t wait any longer. He says he hasn’t made it a priority. He says he thought he wanted kids but it just hasn’t happened.

I’m frustrated that he doesn’t have any strong feelings about whether or not to have kids.

Is this typical? Or do you ladies have to be the one who says I want kids or I’m leaving?