should i tell my boyfriend I was as a child molested?

Question

From age 5-12 I was molested by my male cousin. He would always touch me making me not want to be sexual with anyone. With that being said I'm still a virgin and I would like to have sex one day with my boyfriend but it's just been very difficult for me. Should I tell my boyfriend about my childhood and how should I go about it?

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if you want to. you don't HAVE to. I was raped many times when I was 12-13. I choose not to tell my husband until... we had been together 4.5 years and engaged for 8 months.. 1 month before our wedding it was EATING ME ALIVE and I woke up bawling in the middle of the night and told him.

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I think u should I tell my boyfriend all about me to make our relationship stronger

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for some people it is alot harder to tell your significant other about things like that. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year or so. and I finally opened up to him about my self harm. it's going to be hard, but it's definitely your choice. you shouldn't feel obligated to, but if you trust him, then that's all you Boo.

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I think that you have to do what is comfortable for you. However, if at one point you’re close to having sex and you say no, he might not understand and take it personally.  Ultimately I think it’s important to be honest in your relationship.

should i tell my boyfriend I was as a child molested?

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