ok so I have a friend that my mom doesn't necessarily like. I found out he was going to be all alone for christmas and I asked if he'd want to join my family. He said he'd love that so I asked my mom if he could join us. stuck my neck out for him. She said yes. So I call him back to tell him and he says "Oh...well..my roommates just invited me to their grandma's for a Christmas party today because they found out I'd be alone too but you can come join us if you want and then tonight we can go back to your mom's. have Christmas day at your mom's house" So I said ok and he said "Alright. I'll have my roommate text you the address." So I get in the shower. It's now been 40 minutes since that and still no text. So fuck it. I'm gonna spend it with my family. He can do whatever he likes. stuck my neck out for him and he bailed.