Husband changed
My husband and I got married In March of 2017. So we are newlyweds still. When we first got married we did everything together from getting hair cuts, go to church, grocery shopping, to the gym every night.
Well my husband deployed for 6 months. And the week after he left I found out I was pregnant. Well he is back now and is the complete opposite. He wants to do everything on his own. Also, now I am 35 weeks pregnant, we never have sex bc he doesn’t want to. He won’t sleep in our bed because I snore in my sleep(I️ waited 6 months for my bed buddy to come home.) He makes me feel unwanted, fat, and ugly. He never hugs me or cuddles me like he did before. Instead he plays his ps4, watches tv, is on social media on his phone.
I know he loves our baby because he finds pride in building the furniture for the nursery, and just doing the men things, but he never kisses my tummy or talks to her because “it’s weird.”
It is now Christmas eve and he wanted to go to the gym (I have my account on freeze bc I’m so
Far along). I told him I don’t see why he would want to leave his wife alone and why he would want to not spend time with me (we are stationed across the country away from family).
Please tell me I’m not the only one and that this is somewhat normal. It’s making me feel really depressed and emotional. Like I don’t think he’s cheating, I honestly just think he has lost interest. If that is the case, this really sucks bc we are gonna have a little girl in a few weeks....
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