Am I overreacting?

Ashley

So my boyfriend has had the same job for like a year and his parents live far away and he usually goes to see them on Christmas for a week or two. Well this year his job wouldn't give him the time off to go this year but he put in his two weeks and is just going to go anyway!! I know he needs to see his family but he hasn't even been looking for one and doesn't seem very worried about finding one fast. I was always told you don't quit a job until you have another one. Well I have a very good job and could probably afford to take care of both of us but he's the man and I think he should not have a job. He's just going to quit and go to his parents at the beach and no <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> worry and relax and I'm stuck home working 45 hours and worrying if he's gonna get a job or if I'm responsible for everything. He keeps telling me not to worry he will find one but I don't think it's fair and I think he's being very irresponsible and he thinks I'm being unsupportive because I get irritated that he's not worried about it. Who's right?