Who has the temper in your relationship?

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My husband and I have been married for 5 months. I just noticed recently how bad of a temper he has. He gets angry SOOOO quickly, as soon as he starts to get impatient, he is immediately angry. We've had some massive fights the last couple of weeks. Because I will get just as mad at him as he gets to me. But he is ALWAYS the one who starts it. I am now just trying to not get him upset with me. How has a temper in your relationship?

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We both have really bad tempers. The difference is that his flares at the smallest thing, and then burns out quickly. Mine is much slower to manifest, but when it does, it is pretty explosive and burns for way too long.

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We both have bad tempers, but not with each other. If we are getting upset with each other, we walk away to calm down and return to the issue later with a calmer demeanor.

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My step dad is like this. Drives me effing nuts. I don’t know how my mom deals. It’s weird to me, as neither myself or my husband have a temper. We handle things like adults lol

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Got married 8 months ago and omg, attitudes left and right. We’ve been together for a total of 7 years but idk... they say the first year of marriage is the hardest and I have yet to figure out why.

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I have a rage disorder, so I can get pretty nasty. My disorder has nothing to do with immaturity, I can't help it. Thankfully my husband has a very mild temper and is usually pretty good at calming me down before I get to the point of explosion and then an anxiety attack.

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Neither of us has a temper. I think it's a sign of immaturity

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Neither of us has much of a temper. But my husband does sometimes get overly mad about dumb stuff. 
When he does occasionally snap at me or talk to me with a tone that is unwarranted, I tell him flat out not to speak to me that way and I mean it.  I have no intention of being in a relationship where we are constantly disrespecting each other.
Set boundaries now!

Who has the temper in your relationship?

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