How do you girls do it????

Okay so this is my first cycle I’m really trying to have a baby. Anyways that means we need to have sex! Lol so my hubby and I don’t really get down that often.. we are both fine with that and it feels nice to kinda wait and not do it everyday. Ok anyways, we had sex like twice this week and omg I feel like I can’t handle it😂😂😂😂 it hurts so much. And I wanted to have sex but it hurt after,, kinda like my first time.. so to the women who do it every day in their fertile window how the hell does it not hurt you? 😂 my hubby and I usually if we have sex we wait like a week or two to do it again but like I said I don’t mind. It feels like I lost my virginity all over again 😩😂