Does your SO give you foreplay?

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I'm curious if it's the norm for guys to not give foreplay. I touch my fiancé and give him oral sex every single time we have sex. He rarely touches me at all. No kissing, he doesn't touch my boobs, or down there to get me naturally lubricated. I give him oral a few minutes and then sex lasts literally a minute. I'm worried he does this to get it over with or something.

After some wine one night he was touching me and went down on me and I orgasmed within a minute. First time in 2.5 years with him!

So does your SO give you foreplay? If so for how long?

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That's not good hun you need to speak to him or in the moment in a Sexy voice tell him 
"TOUCH ME" he will go crazy.

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I'd probably start holding back!! My DH plays with me more than I play with him! We are both all over each other but sometimes he'll try to make it all about me and vice versa. But in the beginning he was a lil more hesitant, he didn't want to do something I didn't like. Maybe that's your mans problem, he's worried he'll do something that is a turn off. Maybe put his hands where you want them or tell him what you like?!

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With us it's an unfair ratio to me. Say we have sex 9 times a week I give him oral nine times to him giving it to me 4 or 5. I take it as sometimes he just expects a quickie but hey if thats what he wants then he should be the one lubing me up

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My husband and I were kinda like that. I would give him oral and been touchy but then instead of reciprocating it was straight to business and I like never got to orgasm. I talked to him about it and it did bruise his "manly ego" that he wasn't satisfying me but he got over it. He will not reciprocate oral sex but we comprised on bringing toys in to sex. Since if the best sex I have ever had! Some pretty intense orgasms too :)

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I'll have a talk with him. It needs to be fair.

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Btw, I love having sex with him and love him so much. I just wish he'd want sex more than once a week and go for longer so I can get more enjoyment from it. Considering I have to wait a week or longer for more sex.