So my boyfriend, who’s 20 wants me to stay over at his house for the first time. I’m 19 years old and I still live at home because I go to a local college and I have no money. But even though I’m an adult, I still have to ask my parents to go places. Even the store. And I know damn well that my mother would be livid if I asked to stay at his place. But I think it’s totally fine. We are both adults who make adult choices. And I should be able to do what I’d like. At least she’d know where I was. Yet he keeps pushing me to do it and when my anxiety kicks in I’m going to do what I find comfortable. Which is keeping silent.

Well he’s calling me a child and yelling because I won’t ask her. But I shouldn’t have to ask. I’m a grown adult. But my parents are the most over protective people I’ve ever seen in my life. And I’m so tired of it. But they are me parents. I just need options. Am I wrong for wanting to be an adult?? Should I just tell my mom what I’m gonna do?? Tell my boyfriend to fuck off?? I’m just so overwhelmed