My step kids’ mom is only a mom when she feels like it. Constantly tries to pick fights with me (literally over nothing) and then takes it out on the kids when I don’t feed into it/respond with anger and/or when she’s having a bad day and/or for no reason at all. When the kids aren’t around I call her “birth b!tch” and it feels so good! I can’t stand her! She feels threatened by me even though I made it very clear to her, my husband and the kids that I’m not out to replace anyone at all. The kids complain about her to me and it’s so hard to stay neutral and not say anything but it’s sooo worth it to hear about whatever sugar daddy she has now or how dumb they think she is. It’s thrilling and I love it!