My husband and I have lost two babies in 6 months. I was devastated. He acted pretty ambivalent. The loss has consumed me. I finally told my mom a few weeks after the first baby. She said well maybe now you'll take care of yourself. Needless to say I never told her about the second baby. We never told my husbands daughter. She's only 6. Well he took her with him to buy one of my gifts. He bought me a necklace that is a heart with baby feet on it that says so special, so loved on it. He put a note in the box that said I know it's not the necklace you wanted but we know what it means. It's the first time he's really acknowledged everything we've lost on his own. Best gift he could have given me!!!!