Help! Masturbation! Tiny vagina!

Okay so I’m 18 and I’m a virgin. Tbh I just started masturbating a few months ago. Anyways, my vagina is super tight (I’m assuming because I’m a virgin) and I tried to get two fingers in and it was so tight that I just gave up. Tips on loosening stuff up down there? Honestly I want my first time with someone else to be as painless as possible and it’s gonna hurt like hell with my vagina as tight as it is right now