I've been talking to this very handsome guy for about a month now. he messaged me on Instagram and we've been talking non stop. there's only a few slight issues and I'm not sure if I should break things off now and make it easier or give it a chance. #1 he doesn't drive due to a medical issue. I'm ok with this, but driving is one of the few ways I can assert my independence. it's not a big deal to him because he lives in NYC and I'm outside of Los Angeles, but the thought makes me a bit uneasy as to how he would get around if he came to visit. he says we'll cross that bridge when we get there. #2 no discernable job. I don't know if it's laziness on his part but he says he's usually at home cooking, cleaning, painting and taking care of his nieces and nephews. I work almost 60 hours a week, full time. I don't know how I feel about a guy my age (30) not earning his own money. to my cousin (close confidant) he has already been placed into the 'no scrubs' pile but I seem to have difficulty kicking him to the curb. we've never met face to face and we've done salutes so both of us know we aren't being catfished. Outside of a few issues, he's everything I want on paper: kind, weird af, goth, long haired, a bookworm, non judgemental, doesn't want kids (!!) and so sexy he would make Adonis jealous. I don't know if I'm afraid of commitment and my own feelings or if I need to dodge this bullet. what would YOU ladies do?