No marriage proposal after 8 years!!! Am I being unreasonable????

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My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 8 years and he hasnt proposed. We have a son together and I have a daughter from a previous relationship, he is an awesome dad to both. We talked about getting married but he wants to do a big proposal even though I told him I dont need that. He's not the romantic type and I know we arent really swimming in extra cash (he wants to propose with a ring) but it would be nice if he would ask sometime in the near future. I guess Im thinking he isnt completely ready cuz if he truly was he wouldve probably done it already

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I feel like men once they have kids...proposing isn’t a priority. I’ve heard it before from them...they think that a child together is commitment enough. Have you talked about it with him?

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I been with my SO for 12 years no ring no nothing lol we have a 5 year old together n trying for #2.. I gave up many many years ago lol I figure if I wasn’t so shy I’d just buy two bands n do it!! But I’m nervous n look I haven’t even asked in 12 years bahahahaha. 
Peace vibes. Hopefully he don’t wait 12 years lol hugs 🤗

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You should propose to him me and my husband were together for 3 years and he always said he would propose but he wanted to buy me a beautiful ring and do the whole nine yards but I'm not the waiting type so I proposed to him even though he told me he didn't want me to propose he wanted to do it. A month later we got married in Vegas. If I would have left it up to him who knows when it would have happened.

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He’s comfortable. Why don’t you just propose?

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I was with my husband for 10 years before he proposed. Now we’ve been married for 1.5 years and are trying to conceive #1. 
We bought a house together 3 years ago. He told me that was more of a commitment than marriage 
Then I was grocery shopping and got hit on by random men several times. So I actually gave him an ultimatum. “You need to either start going grocery shopping with me or put a ring on it!”  Haha I guess it was easier to marry me  
(That story is true, but also not the only reason he proposed.  We had talked about it a lot actually, and about waiting until we both finished graduate school and could afford a decent wedding)
And my friend just got married on the day of her 10th anniversary of dating her significant other. So they were together about 9 years before he proposed. 
So I’d say talk to him about it. I think it’s okay to feel antsy and want to be engaged but its okay to wait too

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My cousin and her husband were together 11 years before he finally proposed ...

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If you already talk about getting married and have a child together, I guess the commitment is already there. I would tell him that you don't care if it's small, you just want to go straight into planning your big day!! I was with my OH for 6 years before he proposed (I wasn't expecting a proposal at all as we always spoke about planning our big day anyway). we were 21 during our engagement and married recently at age 26. Now TTC #1 😊

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8 years is a long time!!!! I say you are a sweet, patient woman and he needs to see that. He needs to propose now. I started bugging my man after 4 years and to me that was long already. 
Having a baby and being romantically committed is not the same thing. You earned it and he shouldn’t make a big deal about it. Give it to you if he plans to spend the rest of his life with you and especially if it’s something his woman wants.

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My cousins did that. It was annoying. My boyfriend already told me that he wouldn’t until after our daughter is born. He wants to spend a lot of $$$ on me for it...which I won’t complain but it doesn’t matter to me

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If it doesn't happen in the first year after the age of 30 them it won't happen.

No marriage proposal after 8 years!!! Am I being unreasonable????

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