Anal... how to not sh*t?? Apologies in advance

Question

Right this will seem pretty gross. 
But every time I try to have anal sex with my man I feel like I’m going to shit all over him, even when he only puts a little finger in. I know this is an expected feeling but how do I basically not shit or get rid of the fear that he’s going to end up with shit on his finger or dick? 
We’re yet to get all the way with anal sex because I freak out about it. 
APOLOGIES FOR THE GROSSNESS LADIES!!!! I am very sorry! Just need advice lol!
Not sure if I should invest in a douche or what

Answer

1. Shit before you do it

2. lube lube lube lube

3. don't do anal first thing in the morning. TMI but An ex of mine kinda made me have anal with him one morning and let's just say he found ourselves in the shower soon after haha but he was a piece of shit so it makes me laugh now

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Enemas right before anal can be irritating and trigger your need to poop if used too close to when you have sex. Remember, he's entering your anus and a minor amount of fecal matter is totally normal. If you're planning on doing this, you both should be comfortable with that knowledge, as it is possible that things could get messy. As long as you clean yourself normally while showering and lube up well you should be fine. My husband and I engage in anal and I've never had any issues. He takes obvious precautions and cleans up well after, just in case.

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Im going to agree with Jessica's comment above. Your partner is entering your anus....you both should be comfortable and smart enough to know it's possible for some 💩 to get on his dick. After lubing...you are definitely going to feel that "pressure" like you have to use the bathroom but you don't. Relax your butt muscles!! You have to relax in order to enjoy it...and yes it can be very enjoyable. I orgasm almost every time my bf and I have anal sex. Just remember relax your ass and after the pressure feeling, its smooth sailing. Enjoy!!

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my sister is trans and she told me she buys a douche, fills with water and flushes out her ass like you would douche your vagina. she says you keep doing it until the water comes out clear. and then you’re totally fine to do anal without worrying after that

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My butthole hurts by just reading these comments lol.

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Take a poop or use some kinda enema mineral oil one works well. Fleet brand can be irritating because of the saline in it. But about hour or 2 before action. In the beginning just have him go deep pull out check his dick make sure your good to continue keep towel close by and babywipes. 👌

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Definitely take a shit before hand. Make sure you get everything out. Douche inside your butthole it’ll feel weird but it empty’s your tank. Lol I did anal with my first boyfriend in the shower and pooped on his dick😅😅😅😂😂😂 it’s disgusting but it was also my first time first boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. I laugh every time I think about it actually. 
*maybe that’s why he ignores me for a month and broke up with me at the end* 
Hhmmm 
But yah poop before you do it. Keep everything empty till after. It takes a while of getting used to but the more you do it, the better it’ll feel I think.

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enema first lol

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shit before lmfao

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Take a shower first, and wipe very well. While it’s happening, just stay relaxed. Don’t squeeze or push.

Anal... how to not sh*t?? Apologies in advance

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