My boyfriend is more confused and hopeless as me

Me and my boyfriend been trying to have a baby and I just talked to him yesterday he was so distraught about the home thing i have been off work because I was bleeding and we didn’t know if it was comming from a baby or from a hernia so I have been off work for teo weeks we can took a test and it gave me a faint line then I went to the doctor and took a blood test and a pee test and it was negative. I went to his house and talked to him and he just was like is it me do u think my perm count is low do you think I could be the problem and I felt so bad because I don’t want him to think it’s because of him I mean we both young so I know it can’t be him I had a child 6 years ago i told him maybe it’s not the time yet and it’s going to come but he just wanna keep saying u have a 6 year old it should be well over time for you to have another one which is right I mean idk what to tell him I love my baby so much tho and I want to make him happy by giving him a baby ☹️☹️☹️😞 we are I good places in our life and we have things going good I just want us to move together and get married ❤️💯