Please Help For The Sake Of My Rump

I have been having a slight issue with my rear for a long while now. My partner and I have occasionally done anal (with me, not him 😆) and sure, I enjoy it initially, but the aftermath is the kicker. It always is unexpected that my partner wants to go there and so we don't prepare ourselves properly (like lube and the like). For the past 4-5 months I haven't been able to heal from them and every time I go #2, it just reopens the wounds (sorry for any gross mental pictures 😅) and the pain is staggering. I've talked to my partner about it, that it should be done once I am healed and actually have the preparations ready (but as you can tell, it just goes out the window 😆).

If anyone can tell me what could be done to help me heal, that would be amazing and would be greatly appreciated. 🤗