I lost a baby at 22 weeks in July. Worst time in my life.. I still grieve everyday for that loss. My in laws talked a lot about what happened to me to friends and family even though I am a very private person and didn't want the details open for discussion. I am now pregnant with a baby due in August.. I am so excited!! No one knows except for parents.

Yesterday, my FIL said "you know I was talking to my wife about what you could say about not drinking at holiday events and you could tell everyone your getting testing done... since everyone knows what happened."

I freaked out internally. I couldn't even look at him. TESTING? So during parties I will continually bring up my loss/ need for testing!? seriously??

I know I'm being sensitive but this IS SENSITIVE. Am I being crazy here or was that out of line?