Relationship pressure !! Help

My boyfriend says I don’t do anything for him meaning smoking weed or drinking. That’s not me at all. I have tried weed the first time with him and I didn’t like it. For drinking, the taste is not my favorite & I’m just not ready enough for drinking. I’m 16 going to college a yearly but those type of things aren’t for me. He constantly pressures me and gets mad when I say no. If I choose to smoke or drink, it will be on my own time when I’m ready. No man is gonna tell me what to do nor force me to do anything. I refuse. I do so much for him, but I refuse to drink and be pressured into smoking weed. Advice ? :(