I’m 18 weeks and sick with a cold. The Tylenol cold and sinus does nothing for me. I miss the good drugs!!

But here’s the real deal, I am at my father in laws Home for the holiday. He has no real guest beds... just an old frumpy futon, a twin bed that feels like a board and a sofa. The futon is death. So last night I tried sleeping on the twin- with sheets that haven’t been washed in like a year. Couldn’t get comfortable and the pillows were to flat to help with my cold. I ended up on the couch. I told my husband today that I thought we should go home early so I could sleep and get rest before having to head back to work. He said he wanted to drink with his dad to bring in the new year. Festivities ended around 7 His dad went to bed at 9 and we only live 2 hours away...So tonight I started out trying to sleep on the couch. It is a loveseat, so not quite long enough but more comfy for my belly and my nose. However I can’t sleep. I feel like my husband isn’t taking care of me or my needs. This isn’t the first time I have been sick this pregnancy and he just wants me to “tough it out”. It’s not good for me or baby.

Really looking forward to having to accommodate his wants around a newborns needs... 😒

Am I just being overly needy and emotional? Or should he have taken me home?