Are you pregnant?

Brianna • Hello! I`m medical assistant, book nerd, movie buff, collector of purses. My hubby and I are TTC our first child!
I am a little bit chubby, around my stomach mostly, but there have been several times when I've been ask if I'm pregnant, as someone who Is struggling to conceive this feels like an exceptionally hard blow. I'm dying to be pregnant but feel so sad that I look pregnant but I'm not. How do you all cope with the disappointment?