First time Anal: Terrible After

Hello!!! So I had anal for the very first time. Everything felt fine but then at one point I felt extreme pain and we immediately stopped. I washed up used the restroom and noticed bright red blood on toilet paper Thought it to be normal so I went to bed all was well. Next morning i woke up very sore in that area and quite frankly hurt when sitting on toilet while trying to have a BM. I grabbed a mirror and noticed I have two tears 😭 started treating with coconut oil and aloe vera and sitz baths. Now on to day three I’m no longer experiencing any pain no blood when wiping but I still have tears. Should I seek medical attention? Or try to self treat? Has anyone experienced this? Thank you!❤️